Once the famous actress & politician Jane Fonda said a very beautiful line - “It took me a long, long time to realize we are not meant to be Perfect, WE ARE MEANT TO BE WHOLE”
There are some more lines which we all must have listen at some point of our lives -
“Ek, Ladki Sarv Gunn Sampann hi achi hoti hai”,
“Tum Ladki ho,tmko sarv gunn sampann hona chahiye”
“Sasural jaogi to log kya kahenge, isko roti bhi gol banana nai aata”
“padhai karo acha hai, lekin ladki ho ghar ke saare kaamo mein”
How many of us have listen these lines or phrases from our mothers or any other relatives, I am sure thousands of times
Today some of you may be a Doctor, an Engineer, architect, blogger like me 😊, a corporate professional, an entrepreneur running entire company, no matter what we achieve in our life these phrases stay with us, My Question is WHY?
Towards the end of the blog will share some simple tips that can be easily use for better daily routine especially for a lady
Most of us have spent their childhood teenage and adulthood always listening, “arey tum ladki ho, ye kaam tmhara hai”, “Vo Ladka hai vo thodi na krega”
But I say and today many of us believes that is OK to be IMPERFECT, NOBODY IN THE WORLD IS PERFECT
This problem, yes this is a problem which need to be rectify as early as possible, become more prominent once you get married
“Sasural ka boojh” becomes unbearable if you got married to a family where thinking is still conservative or orthodox. Maintaining balance between your daily household chores, your job become a tough fight and after you become a Mother.
A working mum is a very fancy word may be but behind this there is a lady who acts like a Durga Maa every day, maintaining balance between house work, office and kids and yes, the eldest kid, her Husband with two visible hands and countless invisible hands
Many times, we have seen husband despite of helping her wife, he himself became a baby who wants his socks, food etc etc
Every single lady wants what?
She wants her home perfect!!
She wants her kids to be perfect!!
She wants to be the queen of her husband!!
She wants to excel in her professional life!!
Even, she wants to impress people also!!!
Guys, do tell me honestly -
Is that all possible?
Is that all necessary?
In all this huff huff where are you? What about you?
Who takes a min out and actually ask you about Your Day? Your Mood? Your Desire?
When did that last happened, those meaningful discussion? Rarely may be
All this will be there for an entire life of yours, then what should be the solution?? 🤔
I really like this famous dialogue of the film “Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani”
Before it's too late, start acting, don’t feel pity on you, YOU DESERVE BEST, because YOU ARE BEST
FINALLY, you need to understand Nobody can be PERFECT,
Nobody is PERFECT and it's not a matter of shame or being an incompetent one,
its just accepting the way things are,
You can't be present everywhere, You Can Do Anything but YOU need not to do Everything, Not Necessary, Not Important at all, IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO IT, DON’T DO IT
See another beautiful quote and understand this -
Try these simple tips to improve your daily life -
Take out 30 min only for you early in the morning, do Yoga or any exercise you like, Trust me it will give you a kick
If you are a mom then pre decide your week’s menu for Breakfast, lunch or lunch box for kids and dinner – For 5 days keep menu as simple as possible and all fancy treats for weekend, strictly NO MATTER WHO SAYS WHAT
If you are a working lady in a corporate, after reaching office take at least 10-15 mins to get relax
If you are a working lady in a house then after sending your kids and husbands take at least 1 hr to get relax, do whatever you like except being Couch potato
Since your menu will be pre-decided evenings will be much light for you, try to cook early in the evening or if you have a cook or a maid try to finish your work before your husband’s arrival
In late evening try to sit with your entire family, watch tv, put mobile phones away, crack jokes or even you all can play simple games
After certain age if you don’t have grandparents living with you, train your kids to sleep in separate room, if your in-laws stay with you make a strict habit to make your kids sleep with them, No Matter what MOM-DAD need their space to have healthy relationship
Try to implement these basics changes in your lifestyle and see the magic, if you have some different issue you can ask your query, message me will definitely try to resolve it
What actually we need is "A STANDARD OF NEW WOMEN", A Women who
Doesn't seek Validation only from outside, she actually needs from Inside
Doesn't need TO DO IT ALL , you need to be in her all
It is the DAWN of a New Women, The Authentic Women, The Awakened Women
It is a Dawn of a New "YOU"
Have a Happy Life!!!